women tend to find themselves caught in a trap that makes them eager to fit themselves in to the mould of "a beautiful woman"- standard set by the social trends of the time. the purpose of this endless pursuit,and who it is for, is often forgotten. Perhaps in the end, the pursuit of beauty is actually to yourself, so that you can feel good when you look at yourself in the mirror.But if you purpose of beauty is to be attractive to others, then honestly it is better to spent time and energy polishing and cultivating your inner-self; your character, as i think that would be much more effective in serving your purpose. Whether it be your boyfriend,friends or family.why are they attracted to you? I am sure it's not only because of your looks, but also because of who you are,and what they find in you, the beauty of your mind and personality. No matter how pretty a woman is, if her attractiveness is only in her physical appearance, i don't think the appeal will last, but rather fade away time. Lasting attraction to another human being comes from an inner beauty and confidence that shines from within. We all long for things for beauty-beauty of nature, appearance, a beautiful family and so on. but these cannot be gain if we were withdrawn and isolated. We must created better relationships with other people and interact with our community and society with an open heart. we must be kind to nature. it is the only process that we grow and cultivate our own beauty. I also believe a woman who can praise, appreciate and wholeheartedly respect those around her is more beautiful than another who is criticizing others. It is true that being an expert of discovering beauty,makes one beautiful. Also today we live in age where commercialism determines what is beautiful and appreciated. but don't forget that you cannot find true beauty in fashionable trends alone.you have to work on your inner beauty to be kind to others and look at the world with an open mind. now that makes you satisfied.
